Oh, ugh indeed. My son just turned three, and loves his Dora pull-ups; of course, no one can see those, so it's a different sort of thing, but I can relate to the little boy digging the Dora stuff.

It is frustrating as hell to have to think about this stuff. Gah. The story about the little boy who doesn't play with girls -- oh, kid.

I don't have anything useful to offer, just commiseration.